Brigette 6 years ago

Edited by Brigette 6 years ago

subaru016 6 years ago

He is cream but his ears look like they have been dipped in cold tea. Sorry but sometimes I can't talk much.

Brigette 6 years ago

Please dont feel that you need to talk, just know that I am here to listen if ever you want to. Beautiful picture of Tetley. Thank you for sharing.

MAZL 6 years ago

Hi Subaru

I just want to let you know you are not alone. I lost my husband a year ago and miss him more than I ever realised I would.

Prudence 5 years ago

Subaru016 I've just joined this forum. My husband died in March from oesophogus cancer. He was 61. We were married for 25 years and together 30. I am destroyed. I only go out to walk our doggy. I walk on a quite path away from people. My neighbours avoid me. I am alone all of the time. People visit for a while after he died ,then it is less and less. When people call they ask how I am doing, do I feel better. It's only been 2 months. People say I have to begin a new life. I don't want to. I want to continue with my old one. I don't want anything new. My husband was the love of my life. We are not sociable people. We were together all of the time. Our little family. It was perfect. I can't stop thinking about how ill he became in the end. It breaks my heart. He little face. Such a gentle and kind man. I think of things he said towards the end. He was so lovely. I stayed with him in hospice with our doggy. I can't bear my life without him. I am crying as I am writing this. My heart goes out to you because I know what you are going through. You can write to me if you would like to. I wish I could help you. I wake up at night and realise he is gone and I go out of my mind with grief. I send you my thoughts. Prudence