Losing a parent young

Gemmam1602 4 months ago

4 replies

Hi I’m new I lost my mum last week. I knew her days were limited and she was suffering so I feel a sort of relief she is not longer in pain . However I feel so empty knowing I have no family left it was always just me and her. She was my biggest supporter and I just can’t imagine living life without her. The thought of birthdays Christmas my future wedding all these special occasions without my mum wont feel real. Being only 22 I feel very alone and overwhelmed.

Alexia 4 months ago

Hello Gemmam1602,

We are sorry to read about the loss of your mum. Your feelings and emotions are completely understandable.

I am going to share some information with you about grief support from our website.

How to get support for grief and bereavement when someone dies (mariecurie.org.uk)

I am also sharing a link to a charity that helps support people ages 12-25 that you may wish to look at Hope Again

If you would like to speak to us on the support line, then we are here to offer a listening ear and emotional support. O ur number is Freephone 0800 090 2309 and of course there is this community. We do hope others will be along to share their experiences too.

Take care,

Alexia-Support Line Officer

Rach2005 5 days ago

Hi Gemma,

First of all I’m so so sorry to hear about your mum. It’s so terrible!!

I just thought I’d reply to your message as I recently lost my mum too! I am 32 so a little older than you!

I lost my mum fairly quickly however she was in and out of hospital for the last 3 or 4 years of her life!

I absolutely understand how you’re feeling in terms of thinking about Christmas, birthdays and all the big events in your life that you have got to come!

I have been thinking about getting a little ring or something made in memory of my mum so that in some form she is with me in these times. My mum was cremated so we have her ashes but even if you don’t have your mums you can still get something to dedicate to her and know that when you wear it she’s right there with you!! It can be every day or just for special occasions!!

I really hope that now you are finding peace with everything and are going okay!

Lots of love to you!! Rachael

admin 3 days ago

Hi Rach2005,

Thank you so much for responding to Gemmam1602, and sharing your experience with them.

A ring or getting something made in memory of your mum sounds like a wonderful idea 💛

Gemmam1602 3 days ago

Hi Rachael,

thank you for your response, I really appreciate it .I am sorry to hear you are in the same position. It is horrible to watch your mum in hospital unfortunately I am very familiar with the place too. That is a lovely idea about having a ring made from the ashes . I will definitely look into doing something similar to always have her with me!. Thank you so much . I hope you are doing okay too. With love Gemma x