Clare
6 years ago
Hi Alice,
I am so sorry to hear about your dad’s
situation, dementia is such a devastating illness and causes great distress on
all concerned.
In regards to dementia and end of life, it is,
of course a condition that can shorten life expectancy. However, this will be
dependent on what other health conditions the patient has and it is always
difficult for health professionals to predict the length of this period.
End-of-life care for a person with dementia
requires input from various agencies including the G.P., community nurses,
social services and health care workers.
Everyone who has been diagnosed with dementia
is required to have a care plan drawn up with a variety of healthcare
professionals. End of life care should be a key part of this dementia care
plan.
I understand your frustration with your dad’s
GP, but it is important that the doctor will play an integral part in your
dad’s care, which is why you need to have a frank and honest discussion with
him or her. When you speak to the GP, it is important to be open about
your feelings, anxieties and concerns in regards to your dads care and indeed
pain management.
Many people find it helpful to share their
feelings. I hope you get a reply from others on this forum. If not,
please note that our Support Line is available, should you wish to talk to us.
If you would like to talk about things in more detail please call our Free
phone Support Line on 0800 090 2309, or drop us a line via Web Chat: https://www.mariecurie.org.uk/help
Other organisations you may wish to contact are
Dementia UK: 0800 888 6678
Alzheimer’s Society: 0300 222 1122
Best Wishes,
Clare (Marie Curie Support Line)