Kaz71 2 years ago
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New to this not sure how it works was cancer free from 3 and a half years told yesterday it’s back they are givein me chemo to help with the pain but have give me a year to live on my own and don’t no how I am feelin lost my hubby 3 and a half years ago missin his support so much
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Hannah11 2 years ago
Edited by Clare 2 years ago
Hi Kaz71, welcome to the Marie Curie community.
We’re sorry to hear that you have just been told the cancer has returned. It’s understandable that you are feeling a mix of emotions right now and that you are feeling lost without the love and support that would have come from your husband.
Being diagnosed with a terminal illness is a huge, life-changing event. You might go through a whole range of emotions. We have some information around how you may feel and ways to cope that you may find helpful here: https://www.mariecurie.org.uk/help/support/diagnosed/practical-emotional-support/coping
We hope that there are family or friends that you can turn to for support. Many people tell us they feel it helps them to talk and we are also here at Marie Curie with a safe space for you to talk about how you are feeling whether on this community or with our Support Line - https://www.mariecurie.org.uk/help/support/marie-curie-support-line
Take care,
Support Line Officer - Hannah
If you have any questions you would like our Support Line Officers or Information and Support Nurses to answer please post them here and we will respond to them as soon as possible.
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There are a range of ways we can help you, from clear, useful information about living with a terminal illness to expert nursing care in your home.
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