Samantha
4 years ago
Hello Chez1974
I’m sorry to read about the loss of your husband. As grief is unique to
us all, it can be difficult but important to recognise when the time is right
to reach out for support.
You mention that you feel now is the right time for you to talk which is
a positive step to take. Whilst we aren’t trained counsellors here on the
Support Line, we are here to offer a listening ear if you feel this would be
beneficial. You can reach us on Freephone 0800 090 2309 or through our online
community here. Can I please ask if your husband ever received any support from
a local hospice? This could have been at one of our own hospices or at another
local hospice?
Unfortunately, we are aware that there can be waiting times to access
counselling support which often vary depending on the area you live and the level
of demand for this service. We feature information on our website about other routes
to access this support that you may wish to consider here:
https://www.mariecurie.org.uk/help/support/bereaved-family-friends/dealing-grief/bereavement-or-grief-counselling
You also mention that you work part time, we are aware that many
companies run an Employee Assistance Programme (EAP) which normally includes
access to counselling support. If you feel comfortable to do so, you could ask
your manager or human resources department for information about this if it’s
available to you.
If you weren’t already aware, there is a charity called Cruse who offer
a range of bereavement services which can include face to face support. For
more information about this including contact details for your local service, you can visit their
website here:
https://www.cruse.org.uk/get-help/local-services/north-west/manchester
It’s important to know that you don’t have to go through bereavement
alone and hopefully others here on the community will offer their support and
share with you what has helped them .
Take care,
Sam – Support Line Team
