I am 25 years old, I have been married for 3 years, and have three children, three, two, and nine months. My husband was diagnosed with esophegal cancer in March after 3 cycles of chemo, he went in for life saving surgery but when the operation was started it was found too have spread into his diaphragm and into his stomach and surrounding tissue was infected. On the 5th of August he was diagnosed as terminal, he has been given 9-12months. He has chosen too have no more chemo and too treat his symptoms holistically. I am struggling too juggle caring for my husband, my three children and working 3 days a week as a carer. I'm exhausted, emotionally, physically and financially. My husband had lapsed on his insurances as his company run into financial difficulty so when my husband passes I will also lose the family home. Has anyone else been through this with young children? I'm desperate for advice....please help.