Hi Andrea, how are you both coping and thank you so much for your kind words of understanding , they are really helping me. Like your Mum I do dread the nights, and have been offered help, but I know that I could not just lie there and let somebody else look after John, and I always make it through.
Just a quick question though, did you find that your Dad's condition fluctuated? My reason for asking is that over the weekend I was convinced yet again that John was not going to make it, as he actually fell asleep while we had a friend visiting, and slept virtually all weekend and through the night apart from having to use loo bottle, we have tried Convene catheters without success.thankfully by yesterday afternoon he had perked up again. District Nurse called today and did not seem overly concerned.
I really do hope that my queries do not reap up too many memories.