Loosing a parent

Fiadh92 1 month ago

2 replies

My mum was diagnosed with stage 4 cancer last year. She's been so strong and stoic through the last 12 months of treatment. Lately though she seems more tired and frail. I've been trying so hard to cope but family dynamics are a bit tricky at the moment and it's feeling very overwhelming at the moment. She is my best friend I'm feeling so scared at the thought of her not been around. I'm terrified I won't cope without her.

Yvonne1 1 month ago

Edited by Yvonne1 1 month ago

Good morning Fiadh, and thank you for reaching out to us at this difficult time.

I am so sorry to hear of your dear Mum`s diagnosis, and the feeling of being overwhelmed is understandable.  Being able to talk and share your emotions and fears will help and to that end our  Support Line offers information and emotional support to people affected by terminal illness, they can be contacted for free on 0800 090 2309 if you have any questions or would like to discuss what support may be available. 

This is a safe space to share your thoughts and you are very welcome to contact us at any time.

Kind regards

LuminousO 10 days ago

Good Morning Fiadh92, Thank you for sharing what you’re going through—it truly takes courage to open up about such a difficult time. It’s completely understandable to feel overwhelmed when someone you love so dearly is unwell, especially with all the changes in family dynamics.

You clearly care for your mum so much, and she’s lucky to have you by her side. Everyone copes differently with uncertainty, and it’s okay to feel scared. Please remember to take care of yourself as well, and reach out for support whenever you need it—whether that’s talking with friends, connecting here, or seeking help from a counsellor. You can also use the Marie Curie Support Line that Yvonne shared.

You’re not alone, and many of us here understand how tough it can be. Sending warm thoughts and strength your way.

LuminousO