I am sorry to hear of your Granddad’s ill health,
this is a difficult time for the family; emotions seem to be running high. You
say you gran is not coping with the situation and that she is pushing family
away when they try to help, sadly this sort of reaction is not uncommon.
Everybody copes in a different way and you may find the information here helpful. If you or your mum are concerned about
the way your Granny is treating your Granddad than you may find it helpful to
discuss your concerns with your GP, District Nurse or ourselves.
The link here looks at things you can do as a family to support each other. If you
would like to discuss this with one of the Support Line Officers please
contact us on our Free phone Support Line on 0800 090 2309, or drop us a line
via Web Chat: https://www.mariecurie.org.uk/help
(Marie Curie Support Line)