# Not coping my wife is at end of life
**URL:** https://community.mariecurie.org.uk/t/not-coping-my-wife-is-at-end-of-life/776
**Category:** General chat
**Created:** [21 November 2023 08:19 UTC](https://community.mariecurie.org.uk/t/not-coping-my-wife-is-at-end-of-life/776 "2023-11-21T08:19:02Z")
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### Author:  [@Stephen301165](https://community.mariecurie.org.uk/u/Stephen301165)
#### Post date: [21 November 2023 08:19 UTC](https://community.mariecurie.org.uk/t/not-coping-my-wife-is-at-end-of-life/776/1 "2023-11-21T08:19:02Z")
My wife as stage 4 bowel cancer and is very ill the palliative nurse are saying prepare for the worst. But I can’t get my head around it She was given months to live in may 2021 buts as fought so much I know that she will pass but finding it so difficult at the moment
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### Author:  [@Admin](https://community.mariecurie.org.uk/u/Admin)
#### Post date: [23 November 2023 08:45 UTC](https://community.mariecurie.org.uk/t/not-coping-my-wife-is-at-end-of-life/776/2 "2023-11-23T08:45:59Z")
Hello Stephen301165,
I’m sorry to read about your wife’s diagnosis and all that you’re going through as a family. It’s understandable that you can’t get your head around what’s happening and are finding it difficult at the moment.
For some people, talking about what they’re going through and how they’re feeling can be helpful, so I’m so pleased you joined our Online Community. I hope others will see your post and feel able to share their own experiences with you too.
Is there anything in particular that you are worried or concerned about that we may be able to support you with or talk through with you?
We look forward to chatting with you,
Bonnie
Marie Curie Online Community Team
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### Author:  [@dianafoxer](https://community.mariecurie.org.uk/u/dianafoxer)
#### Post date: [27 December 2023 12:22 UTC](https://community.mariecurie.org.uk/t/not-coping-my-wife-is-at-end-of-life/776/3 "2023-12-27T12:22:02Z")
Diana Foxer